And once you have it, theres nothing exciting left. It may turn into a serious relationship leading to marriage, kids etc, etc. Next thing you at the sink in an apron or at church singing Kumbaya my lord, lol. Most likely reason is you were a simple conquest — a notch. Men like the feeling of power and they take your most valuable and priceless treasure — you! Alternatively, you may not be very good at sex therefore there is no reason to call back.
Contact Author Learn why he should call after sex! Source Too often men make assumptions and excuses for what they assume women are thinking and feeling. Most women don't assume that by having sex with a guy he automatically turns from someone they are dating to their boyfriend or is in the running for husband status. When a guy makes the assumption of what he thinks you want, it's because his ego is way too big. This article explores three reasons a man should call after sex and when if ever it's ok to not call after sex. If a guy isn't interested in anything serious, then he should be upfront and honest about that before sleeping with you. Why date a woman for several weeks or months—getting her emotionally attached, then sleep with her—knowing you have no intention of calling because you are definitely not looking for anything more than a one-time hook-up or a casual fling?
Originally Posted by spinaroonie You've been on three great dates and had sex on the third date. You left his apartment afterwards and didn't spend the night. Do you guys contact a girl the day after the first bang if you intend to hit it again? There are definitely different schools on this, and I'm curious what you guys--especially the more experienced among you--do and, of course, what your rationale is behind it.